“RELATIONSHIPS: Where Many Enter to Be Loved but Forget to Be Healed”

💣 1. Unhealed People Don’t Need Relationships—They Need Revelation

If you still think someone will “complete you,” you’re in danger.

Because the moment they disappoint you, you’ll feel incomplete again.
The moment they pull back, you’ll feel abandoned again.
The moment they trigger your trauma, you’ll start calling it “toxic love”—when in fact, it’s just unhealed wounds colliding.

“He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”
— Psalm 147:3 (KJV)

🧠 2. Love Is Not Chemistry—It’s Consciousness

Don’t be deceived by butterflies, obsession, and infatuation.
Those are emotions. They come and go.

Conscious love is built on:

• Responsibility
• Truth
• Discipline
• Peace
• Shared vision
• Accountability

That’s why so many relationships start like fire and end in ash—because they were fueled by chemistry, not clarity.

🕊️ 3. A Relationship Will Never Be Stronger Than Your Identity

You attract at the level of your self-worth.
You tolerate based on your self-concept.
You stay based on your self-respect.

So if you don’t know who you are in Christ, you’ll keep dating people who don’t know how to treat you.

“Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…”
— 2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV)

Not just spiritually unequally yoked—emotionally, mentally, purpose-wise, and maturity-wise.

🔍 4. Stop Trying to Heal Through People Who Hurt You

One of the biggest traps is thinking:

“If they change, I’ll finally feel loved.”

But that’s bondage.

You are not a rehab center for broken potential.
You are not called to prove your worth through pain.
Love doesn’t need to make you suffer first to feel real.

The more healed you are, the less attractive pain-based love becomes.

🔄 5. Don’t Confuse Patterns With Purpose

Some of us keep getting the same kind of person with a different face—and we call it “our type.”

No. That’s not your type.
That’s your wound crying for attention.

Until you heal, your preferences will always betray you.
Until you grow, your attractions will be trauma-based, not purpose-based.

💎 Final Word: Choose Wholeness Before Romance

Before you chase a relationship, ask yourself:

• Am I whole or just hiding?
• Am I ready to love or just desperate to be seen?
• Do I want partnership or do I want rescue?

When you finally love from a place of overflow—not emptiness—you won’t settle, you won’t beg, and you won’t break.

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• Heal your attachment wounds
• Discover your divine love language
• Attract purpose-aligned partners
• And rebuild your identity from the inside out

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Because you weren’t created to chase love.
You were created to become it.

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