1. If You’re Always Fighting to Be Heard, That’s Not Partnership—That’s Performance
You were not created to:
- Beg for attention
- Earn affection
- Translate your worth to someone emotionally unavailable
🧠 When your nervous system is always activated, you’re not in love—you’re in survival.
📖 “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28 (KJV)
Real love brings rest. Not exhaustion.
2. Stop Romanticizing Emotional Whiplash
If your “connection” is built on hot-and-cold behavior, confusing silence, and emotional apologies followed by repeat offenses—
that’s not passion.
That’s emotional manipulation.
📖 “Let love be without dissimulation…” — Romans 12:9 (KJV)
Love without masks. Without games. Without guesswork.
3. Godly Love Protects Your Peace, Not Just Your Feelings
A love that constantly disrupts your walk with God, pulls you into spiritual confusion, or compromises your standards is not divine. It’s draining.
📖 “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace…” — 1 Corinthians 14:33 (KJV)
If it’s causing you to lose your peace, it’s also costing you your alignment.
4. You Don’t Have to Earn What Was Meant to Be Given Freely
Stop fighting to stay where God is clearly trying to remove you.
Stop proving your worth to someone who’s ignoring God’s value on your life.
📖 “Ye are bought with a price…” — 1 Corinthians 6:20 (KJV)
You are already chosen. Already loved. Already worthy.
5. What Safe Love Feels Like
✅ You don’t question your place in their life
✅ You feel peace in their presence
✅ You’re accepted in your authenticity—not your performance
✅ You grow spiritually, emotionally, and mentally
✅ You’re not constantly trying to “fix” it—it flows
🧠 Real love feels like security—not suspense.
Let Me Help You Shift From Survival Love to Safe Love
You weren’t created to beg for bare minimum. You were created to attract covenant.
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Stop surviving love. Start receiving love that reflects God’s heart for you.
—Keith Muoki
Safe Love Strategist | Christ-Centered Coach | Emotional Wholeness Mentor
