💡 1. People Don’t Wound You from Scratch — They Trigger What’s Unhealed
That person you’re grieving?
They didn’t create your pain. They activated it.
They reminded you of:
- The parent who never saw your worth
- The ex who said you were “too emotional”
- The friend who loved you only when you were useful
- The childhood where love had to be earned
When they hurt you, they didn’t introduce the wound.
They just unmasked it.
“The heart knoweth his own bitterness…” — Proverbs 14:10 (KJV)
🧠 2. Your Reaction Isn’t Weakness — It’s Ancestral Memory
The crying. The overthinking. The emotional overwhelm.
That wasn’t about one person.
That was your inner child, inner teen, and inner adult all reacting at the same time.
You weren’t just healing from a person.
You were healing from a pattern that’s been following you for years.
And now you’re being called not to run — but to finally face it.
🧹 3. Don’t Just Mourn the Breakup — Study the Trigger
Instead of only asking:
“Why did they do this to me?”
Also ask:
“Why did I attract this dynamic?”
“Why did I tolerate this version of love?”
“What part of me believed this was normal?”
Healing is not about blaming them.
It’s about becoming so self-aware that you never hand over your peace like that again.
🔥 4. Some People Are Sent to Break the Illusion — Not Your Spirit
You thought they were your soulmate.
God used them as your mirror.
You thought it was love.
It was a lesson wrapped in chemistry.
And the lesson was:
Heal this. Now. Before it grows deeper. Before it repeats. Before it becomes a cycle you raise your children in.
🕊️ 5. You Weren’t Being Punished — You Were Being Positioned
You’ve cried. You’ve blamed yourself. You’ve said, “I’ll never trust again.”
But this wasn’t punishment.
This was preparation.
God is preparing you for:
- A new version of you
- A deeper level of self-worth
- A higher standard of love
- A season of clarity and alignment
“He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3 (KJV)
You’re not broken.
You’re becoming aware.
✨ Final Word: Don’t Just Move On — Move Inward
Before you rush to “get over it,” slow down.
What did you learn?
What did it reveal?
What do you need to heal?
Because true healing isn’t about forgetting them.
It’s about remembering yourself.
You didn’t lose.
You got an opportunity to rebuild from the ground up — this time, with truth, God, and inner wholeness at the center.
📘 Ready to Heal What Was Triggered?
Let’s not just move forward blindly.
Let’s decode the pattern, heal the root, and prepare for the love you truly deserve.
🎯 Book a session with me: https://keithmuoki.com
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Because when you heal the root, the pattern dies with it.
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