1. Potential Is Who They Could Be. Fruit Is Who They Actually Are.
Dating potential is dating a fantasy.
It’s trying to marry the version of them you hope for instead of accepting the version that’s showing up right now.
🧠 You are not the Holy Spirit.
You cannot build a future off a wish list, prayer points, and red flags you keep repainting.
2. The Savior Complex Is Killing Your Destiny
If you think your love will “fix them,” you’re not in love—you’re in ministry.
You weren’t called to date the project version of someone and suffer in the name of “helping them grow.”
📖 “Be ye not unequally yoked…” — 2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV)
You’re not being “patient” or “godly” by tolerating spiritual immaturity, emotional instability, or inconsistency. That’s not love. That’s self-abandonment.
3. Purpose Aligns, Potential Distracts
When God sends someone, you won’t have to:
- Force communication
- Chase consistency
- Sacrifice your standards
- Explain basic respect
A purpose partner comes ready to build, not waiting to be built.
📖 “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9 (KJV)
If it’s all sacrifice with no reward, it’s not a relationship—it’s a rescue mission.
4. How to Know You’re Dating Potential and Not Purpose
🔴 They talk more than they act.
🔴 They’re “deep” but undisciplined.
🔴 You feel emotionally exhausted instead of spiritually empowered.
🔴 You keep making excuses for them while ignoring the Holy Spirit’s nudges.
📖 “Hope deferred maketh the heart sick…” — Proverbs 13:12 (KJV)
Stop hoping they’ll become someone they’re not even praying to become.
5. You Deserve a Partner, Not a Project
Before you confuse long-suffering with loyalty, ask yourself this:
“If I met them today as a stranger, would I choose them—or do I feel obligated because of time, guilt, or emotional investment?”
That’s not love. That’s emotional entrapment.
📖 “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts…” — Colossians 3:15 (KJV)
If you have to force it, it’s not divine.
Let’s Break the Cycle of Settling
You were never called to settle. You were called to build—with someone equally aligned in vision, values, and Christ consciousness.
Let me help you reset:
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Stop dating based on hope. Start partnering based on purpose.
—Keith Muoki
Kenya’s Relationship Strategist | Spiritual Coach | Purpose Alignment Mentor
