1. The Chasing Spirit Is a Trauma Program
If you constantly initiate, overgive, or stay anxious waiting for texts, you’re operating from fear—not faith. You’ve mistaken attention for affection, and validation for value.
Chasing is a symptom of a broken identity.
🧠 You’re not chasing love. You’re chasing proof that you’re lovable.
📖 “Fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love.” — 1 John 4:18 (KJV)
2. Alignment Feels Like Peace, Not Panic
You’ll know you’re aligned with the right person when you can breathe. You’re not checking your phone every 10 minutes. You’re not trying to decode every emoji.
When it’s from God, it won’t confuse your soul.
📖 “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace…” — 1 Corinthians 14:33 (KJV)
So if the situationship is draining your peace, it’s already violating your purpose.
3. Your Soulmate Is Waiting for the Healed Version of You
Your “forever person” doesn’t need your perfection—they need your alignment. They’re attracted to your healed self, your self-loving self, your Christ-conscious self.
Stop rehearsing rejection. Start rewriting your identity.
📖 “Be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind…” — Romans 12:2 (KJV)
4. How to Spiritually Align Before You Date Again
✅ Heal your subconscious: Use daily “I AM” affirmations (e.g., I am love. I am chosen. I am whole.)
✅ Stop rehearsing old betrayals: Use imagination to revise the past.
✅ Set divine boundaries: Not to push people away—but to protect your peace.
✅ Practice emotional celibacy: If they don’t feed your faith, don’t give them your energy.
✅ Visualize from the end: See yourself already married, already loved—then live from that state.
🧠 Your imagination is God’s printing press.
5. You Don’t Need Closure—You Need Christ Consciousness
Waiting for closure from a person is like expecting a thief to return what they stole—your peace, your time, your identity.
Don’t beg for apologies. Reclaim your divine memory.
📖 “And ye are complete in him…” — Colossians 2:10 (KJV)
Break the Pattern. Become the Standard.
This isn’t about becoming more attractive to others. It’s about becoming unavailable to dysfunction. Stop praying to be picked. Start praying to be positioned.
Let’s realign together:
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You are not meant to chase love. You are meant to carry love. You are love.
—Keith Muoki
Spiritual Relationship Mentor | Identity Strategist | Christ-Focused Coach
