1. The Right Person Won’t Be Confused About You
God doesn’t send people to “figure it out” at your emotional expense.
He sends people who are aligned, ready, and clear.
🧠 If someone has to “think about it,” that’s already your answer.
The person sent by God will not need a trial period to decide if you’re valuable.
📖 “Let your yea be yea; and your nay, nay…” — Matthew 5:37 (KJV)
2. Their Confusion Will Rob You of Your Confidence
Constant uncertainty leads to emotional erosion.
You’ll start second-guessing yourself.
Asking:
- “Did I do something wrong?”
- “Why are they hot and cold?”
- “Why am I not enough?”
Stop. You’re not the problem. Their indecision is.
📖 “A double minded man is unstable in all his ways.” — James 1:8 (KJV)
3. God’s Voice Sounds Like Peace, Not Guessing Games
When God connects two people, it’s not forced.
There is clarity, confirmation, and calm.
You don’t beg, overthink, or tiptoe.
You know.
📖 “And let the peace of God rule in your hearts…” — Colossians 3:15 (KJV)
If it’s messing with your peace, it’s not sent by the Prince of Peace.
4. Confused People Usually Carry Hidden Agendas
Let’s be real. Confusion is often code for:
- “I like your energy, but I’m not ready to commit.”
- “I want access to your body without a covenant.”
- “I enjoy the benefits without paying the price.”
That’s not love. That’s emotional theft.
You’re not a convenience store. You’re a covenant.
📖 “Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” — Matthew 6:21 (KJV)
5. How to Stop Entertaining Confused People
✅ Cut ties with anyone who leaves you mentally exhausted
✅ Stop “waiting” for them to be ready—your destiny can’t pause for indecision
✅ Rebuild your standards through Scripture, not desperation
✅ Love yourself enough to walk away from lukewarm
✅ Visualize & affirm: “I attract clarity, not confusion.”
📖 “Choose you this day whom ye will serve…” — Joshua 24:15 (KJV)
The right person will choose you clearly, consistently, and confidently.
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Stop entertaining confusion. You are the answer—not someone’s option.
—Keith Muoki
Relationship Strategist | Identity Coach | Christ-Centered Mentor
