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This bold and spiritually grounded article by Keith Muoki challenges the modern obsession with seeking relationships without inner readiness. Drawing from Proverbs 4:23 and Matthew 6:33, it reveals how true love is not found through prayer alone but through personal transformation, healing, and identity alignment in Christ. Keith teaches that relationships mirror our self-concept, and until you become the kind of person you desire, you’ll keep attracting what reflects your inner wounds. This is not about waiting for love—it’s about becoming it.

Before love finds you, you must find yourself.
Because no matter how attractive, successful, or spiritual you are—if your inner dialogue is filled with self-doubt, shame, or unworthiness… love will always feel just out of reach.

As the Bible says:
“Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself.” (Matthew 22:39, KJV)
You can’t give what you don’t carry. You don’t attract what you want—you attract what you believe you are.

Let’s be honest: if your relationships feel like a rerun of the same heartbreak with different faces… it’s not the devil. It’s your subconscious. And until you change the program, you’ll keep dating the same energy in a different body.

As the Bible says:
“Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap.” (Galatians 6:7, KJV)

You don’t attract what you want—you attract what your subconscious agrees with.

Let’s be clear: chasing love is not romantic—it’s a trauma response.
If you keep overgiving, overthinking, and overextending for people who barely give you clarity… you’re not in love. You’re in a cycle. And it’s time to break it.

As the Bible says: “The blessing of the Lord, it maketh rich, and he addeth no sorrow with it.” (Proverbs 10:22, KJV)
If love feels like confusion, emotional starvation, or performance—it’s not a blessing. It’s a signal.