Stop Trying to Be Chosen—Start Choosing Yourself
1. When You Wait to Be Chosen, You Bury Your Power The reason many stay in one-sided relationships is because deep down, they still believe their worth is decided by who wants them.Wrong.Your worth was sealed by the Cross, not someone’s attention span. When you keep waiting to be chosen: You abandon your standards. You suppress your needs. You confuse pain with patience. You serve where you should’ve walked away. The truth? You’re not waiting on them. You’re waiting on you. 2. Rejection Hurts Most When You’ve Rejected Yourself Most of the heartbreak people experience today is simply self-rejection in disguise. They chose someone who didn’t choose them back, not because the person was divine—but because they were familiar.Familiar pain.Familiar neglect.Familiar emotional games. And until you heal the version of you that keeps seeking external validation, you will keep finding people who reflect your internal confusion. 📖 “Examine yourselves, whether ye be in the faith…” – 2 Corinthians 13:5 (KJV) 3. Choosing Yourself Isn’t Pride—It’s Spiritual Responsibility When I say “choose yourself,” I don’t mean arrogance.I mean recognize your divine identity. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). You are a royal priesthood (1 Peter 2:9). You are seated in heavenly places (Ephesians 2:6). You are complete in Him (Colossians 2:10). When you truly know this, you stop asking to be picked. You start walking like you’re placed. 4. Don’t Chase Their Validation—Upgrade Your Vibration When you radiate healed energy, people can feel it.You stop attracting users. You start attracting aligned souls.Because your frequency will always reveal your level of self-worth. 🧠 Remember: Your imagination is God’s printing press.If you constantly imagine rejection, betrayal, and confusion—you’ll keep printing more of the same. But when you begin to think from love, feel from worth, and walk from vision—your life changes. Final Word: You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For You don’t need them to pick you.You need to pick yourself.You don’t need closure.You need clarity.You don’t need a sign.You need a standard. 📖 “Arise, shine; for thy light is come…” – Isaiah 60:1 (KJV) Stand up.Walk away from what dims your light.And never again lower your value to be visible. Ready to Break the Cycle and Rebuild from Power? If you’re done waiting to be chosen and ready to become the chosen version of yourself, let’s go deeper. I’ll walk you through identity reprogramming, mindset mastery, and relationship strategy rooted in scripture and power. 💥 30-Minute Rapid Clarity Coaching 💡 1-Hour Private Coaching Session 👑 2-Hour Deep Dive Mentorship 📞 Direct support via WhatsApp: +254705960183📚 Explore more blogs, tools & ebooks: www.keithmuoki.com🎥 Daily wisdom drops: TikTok | YouTube 🛑 Stop waiting to be chosen.✅ Start walking like you’re already sent. — Keith MuokiBiblical Metaphysicist | Strategic Relationship Coach | Christ-Centered Mentorwww.keithmuoki.com
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