Let’s have a real talk…
Most people don’t know if they’re truly in love—or trauma bonded.

They confuse emotional intensity with emotional intimacy. But here’s the hard truth:
Trauma bonds feel like love—but they’re rooted in pain, not peace.

📖 “There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear…” — 1 John 4:18 (KJV)

If the connection is driven by fear of abandonment, high anxiety, or deep insecurity, that’s not love—it’s survival mode.

Let’s be clear: if the relationship is pulling you away from prayer, peace, and purpose—it’s not from God. It might be cute, convenient, and even “Christian”… but if it disconnects you from the Source, it’s a counterfeit.

📖 “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me.” — John 10:27 (KJV)

God doesn’t send confusion. He sends confirmation.

Let’s get straight to the point:
Many people are frustrated with their relationships, finances, and emotions—not because God is silent, but because their subconscious is loud.

You’ve been praying hard but thinking wrong.
And you can’t cast out what you keep calling back with your thoughts, self-talk, and choices.

📖 “And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind…” — Romans 12:2 (KJV)

Let me talk to you like a big brother:
Dating someone for their potential is one of the fastest ways to waste your time, wound your heart, and delay your destiny.

Why? Because potential is not purpose.

📖 “Ye shall know them by their fruits…” — Matthew 7:16 (KJV)
Not by their “good heart,” not by their “ambition,” and definitely not by the vision you created for them in your imagination.

Let’s get brutally honest…

Many people are not dating for love—they’re dating for anesthetic. To numb the loneliness. To distract from the pain. To avoid sitting with themselves.

But here’s the problem:

📖 “No man putteth new wine into old bottles…” — Matthew 9:17 (KJV)

Trying to build a divine relationship while emotionally broken is like planting seeds on cracked concrete. It won’t grow. It’ll frustrate you. And eventually—it’ll break again.

Let’s be real—rejection hurts. It hits your chest, kills your appetite, and makes you question your worth. But here’s the uncomfortable truth:

Rejection is redirection.

📖 “All things work together for good to them that love God…” — Romans 8:28 (KJV)

God doesn’t allow rejection to punish you. He allows it to position you. That person didn’t walk away—they were removed.

You’ve prayed, cried, fasted, and even screenshot your WhatsApp conversations asking, “Why don’t they love me back?”

But here’s the raw truth: you’re chasing someone who doesn’t match your divine alignment.

📖 “Be not unequally yoked together with unbelievers…” — 2 Corinthians 6:14 (KJV)

Relationships aren’t lotteries. They’re mirrors. You don’t attract what you desire—you attract what your inner man agrees with.

Let’s cut to the truth—if you keep ending up with emotionally unavailable people, users, manipulators, or time-wasters… it’s not “bad luck.” It’s bad programming.

📖 “Can two walk together, except they be agreed?” — Amos 3:3 (KJV)

The problem is not them. It’s the inner version of you that agrees with them.